If you're in danger of falling behind on your mortgage, or if you're already late, you may be skeptical about your lender's willingness to help.
And if you take the advice we personal-finance types typically offer -- call the lender as soon as possible and ask for help -- you could find yourself stymied by the lender's bureaucracy or even told to come back when you are really behind in your payments.
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